FEATURED PHOTO: Sarah McLachlan

The ocean has long inspired songs and verse of the soothing power of the sand and salty air.

Two local women went beyond the words and found a way to use the healing nature of the surf to help other women in need of peace. Nestled on the quiet beach of Ocean Grove, Mary’s Place by the Sea is assisting women from all over the country who are receiving treatment for cancer. In the three-story Victorian home, visitors find rest and a place to regroup and regain strength.

On July 28, sand and surf will once again inspire song as Sarah McLachlan, the three-time Grammy-winning singer and songwriter, brings her emotional ballads and hauntingly beautiful voice to Monmouth County to support and encourage the nonprofit. In partnership with Grammy-winner Patty Griffin, the two will give a sold-out benefit concert at the Paramount Theatre in Asbury Park.

The Canadian singer, who founded the Lilith Fair tour and has sold more than 40 million albums worldwide, is no stranger to the pain cancer can cause.

“I’ve actually lost my mom, my dad, and my brother to cancer, so I know the pain of watching someone you care about become so sick and the relentlessness of it all,” shared McLachlan. “Caregivers can often feel helpless, and any respite is wonderful. Mary’s Place offers that, a calm moment in a very tough struggle, and I applaud the work they are doing.”

Mary's Place by the Sea
PHOTO: Mary’s Place by the Sea opened the doors to its new home in June, 2016. From June 2016 – May 2017, they welcomed 908 women with cancer through our new doors.

When the idea for Mary’s Place came to Michele Gannon, she and co-founder Maria McKeon shared their vision by reaching out to oncology offices and groups supporting women with cancer. The response was immediate. The need for a place for women with cancer to go and be surrounded by love and understanding was real; a place where cancer was a common denominator, but not the defining attribute; a place where taking a deep breath, sharing challenges and experiences, and recognizing the needs of the whole person was the focal point.

“We are thrilled to have these two incredibly talented, Grammy Award winning artists dedicate their time and musical talents to benefit women with cancer,” said Gannon, President and Co-Founder. “This concert represents exactly what Mary’s Place by the Sea is all about: women helping women in their time of profound need.”

In June of 2016, Mary’s Place opened the doors to a new, custom-built, state-of-the-art home just a block from the Ocean on Main Avenue in Ocean Grove. Since its founding, Mary’s Place has welcomed more than 8,000 women, and continues to be a safe haven for women with cancer. Mary’s Place provides services that complement medical treatment, including oncology massages, nutrition education, individual counseling, expressive writing, reflexology, Reiki, guided meditation, prayer, and yoga at no cost to the guests.

“A friend is involved with Mary’s Place and asked me if I might come and help out, and it was an easy yes after hearing about their services,” says McLachlan. “I love New Jersey, having spent some time there a few years back at the beach. The people are great, the water is warm, and there is surf!”

For more information, or to donate your time or treasure, visit marysplacebythesea.org.

The Strength of Lilith & Mary – Women Inspiring Women

Co-founders Maria McKeon & Michele Gannon
PHOTO: Co-founders Maria McKeon & Michele Gannon

In 1996, when Sarah McLachlan was organizing her festival of all-female artists, she needed a name. A friend told her the story from Hebrew mythology of Adam’s first wife before Eve. Her name was Lilith. Known as a cautionary tale because she had insisted on equality and then left the Garden, McLachlan found Lilith to be the perfect protagonist. Lilith Fair was born.

In 2009, when co-founders Michele Gannon and Maria McKeon first started their non-profit, they rented two rooms at a bed and breakfast in Ocean Grove. The idea for the retreat had come to Gannon one night after she had been sick in bed with the flu. A mother of three, she experienced how challenging it was on the household for the ‘mom’ to be sick. She realized how much harder that struggle must be for women with an on-going illness like cancer. When Gannon shared her idea with her friend Maria McKeon, she found not only a sympathetic ear but a willing partner. Being prayerful women, Gannon and McKeon welcomed their first guests by asking themselves what Mary, the Mother of Jesus, would do. They looked to Mary as a symbol of faith, hope, kindness, humility, and most of all unconditional love. These were the virtues that would shape their organization. Mary’s Place by the Sea was born.

Sarah McLachlan – A One-Woman Force for Good

Sarah McLachlan
PHOTO: Sarah McLachlan

In the 1990s women musicians found it challenging to get air time on the radio, and touring slots were nearly impossible to find. Young female music stars like Jewel, Tracy Chapman, Sarah McLachlan, and Sheryl Crow had to fight for their spots, as unspoken quotas would not allow too many female singers in a row. In 1996, McLachlan organized a mini festival that would ultimately turn into Lilith Fair, the exclusively female festival of singers that would revolutionize music for female artists and raise millions of dollars for charity. For every ticket sold, $1 was donated to a women’s shelter. McLachlan was 28 at the time.

McLachlan is a celebrated singer and songwriter with more than 40 million albums sold worldwide. She has received three Grammy Awards and twelve Juno Awards over her career and was recently inducted into the Canadian Music Hall of Fame. McLachlan is known for her philanthropic efforts and has raised millions of dollars for women’s charities. In 2002 she opened The Sarah McLachlan School of Music, providing top quality music instruction to at-risk and underserved children at no cost. When announcing the benefit concert, McLachlan said of Mary’s Place by the Sea, “It’s a wonderful place for women to go when they’re healing from cancer. I hope you can join us!”

For more on McLachlan, visit SarahMcLachlan.com

Patty Griffin – Folk & Gospel Meet a Desire to Do Good

Patty Griffin
PHOTO: Patty Griffin | CREDIT: David McClistor

Patty Griffin is a two-time Grammy Award winning artist and seven-time nominee. Griffin has received a number of prestigious accolades, notably the Americana Music Association’s Artist of the Year and Album of the Year for 2007’s Grammy-nominated Children Running Through, as well as the 2011 Grammy Award for Best Traditional Gospel Album, honoring 2010’s Downtown Church. Her catalog of nine studio albums and two live collections have been praised by everyone from NPR to The NY Times. Like Sarah McLachlan, she is dedicated to contributing to the well-being of the planet. Griffin shows compassion for the struggling amongst us via personal and public acts of charity including the 2016 Use Your Voice tour in conjunction with the League of Women Voters, and the 2017 Lampedusa Tour supporting Jesuit Refugee Relief Efforts and Education.

For more on Giffin, visit PattyGriffin.co

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